Im not for sure if its spotting or not? no mean answers please.?

Well today i looked in my undies and there was a blood stain a tiny bit smaller than a dime in my undies. Well a few days ago i pooped and it hurt kinda. When i wiped there was a tiny bit of blood. Im not for sure if that was because it hurt or becasue it was spotting. Well today i pooped and since i might of made my self bleed on the day that it huurt i might of bled again because of that. Well when i found the dime sized blood stain in my undies it was way before when i went to the bathroom today. so i just dont knwo if i made my self bleed or if it was spotting? Oh and im 11 and i had cramps a few days ago and then i just had mild cramp for like 10 seconds just berely.