Why should I help my mom out around the house when she refuses to take me shopping for clothes and food?

stay away from the house, force yourself to become involved in some things at school and go to the library..study hard and get the best grades you can, apply for scholarships, education is the key to your freedom. Apply for part time jobs. Don't give up.. keep applying. Ask to speak to the school counselor and be open about what is going on at home, your depression and what your goals are. It will get better but you have to do your part to make it happen.